The greatest thing you will ever learn is to love, and be loved in return. Nothing in life is easy, especially to love, and accept love in return. Growing up, you experience love, in many different kind of ways, or maybe you don’t, depending on your surroundings. Love is mistaken, and misunderstood at times. Then at others, taken for granted, and abused. What does it mean to love? What does it mean to accept love? Thousands of questions, and they all boil down to, what is love?
Love has many different meanings to all different types of people. Personally, for me love is the feeling of caring for someone so deeply that your life would be very different without them, not only different, but incomplete. A apart of you would be missing forever, like that one puzzle piece that compeltes the picture, but is nowhere to be found. Life doesn’t matter without that one person in it. You live to protect them, to make them happy, and to form long lasting memories you both carry for the rest of your life. When I think of love, I think of a couple celebrating the news of an expecting baby, walking hand in hand along the shore of a beach, laughing and simple enjoying one another. My favorite quote about love, in which sums it up perfectly for me, “ that can’t eat, can’t sleep, reach for the stars, world series kind of stuff”. Your depiction of love will be quite different than mine, or possibly you may not even know it.
Love is an incredibly powerful world, in which many things can happen; Good and bad. Being in love, you always want to be with that person, and when you’re not, you’re thinking about them. “What is he thinking about? Is he wondering about me, as I am him?” You know that you need that person, because without them, your life doesn’t make sense.
My depiction of love, is just what I personally think. Although, how can anyone know the real definition of love? I truly believe that love is one of the hardest words to define, even with a dictionary fight infront of you, can you understand it? Meaning or feeling?
Being in love with someone, truly being inlove, you spend the rest of your life loving that person. Although in society, why is there divorce? Why is there unfaithfulness? We all are victims of, or the criminal of the act; but we still love. Regardless of which side of the bridge you stand on, you will find your stengths in your heart. Many will say that your heart will decieve you, because it acts on raw emotion, and unrational thinking. Personally, I think that, that’s not true. If you follow your heart, to its truest extent, it will never lead you astray.
“The best love is the kind that awakens the soul, and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds”, there are so many things that portray love, and what its like. Love isn’t easy, by any means, and not in the real world. Even people in the truest of loves, fight and argue. In the beginning, they may have a hard time trusting that they love, and through out their loving relationship there will be disagreements, but its all worth it. Love is so worth the trouble, and the baggage, because it is love that gives a meaning to life, and without it, there would be no living.
I know love, from many different perspectives, but the one that I will stand by for the rest of my life, lies within the heart of my daughter Kadence Alayne. I know that in my heart, no matter what we have been through already, and whatever lies ahead for us, we will get through it. Mother's love has withstood many testing times, and tasks, events that some weak hearted would give up on. Learning and growing with her, loving and learning, hurting and learning, living and learning and loving, is making out for the best journey of my life.
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