None VS. All

None VS. All

There is a type of person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, and becomes nothing. They may avoid the suffering and sorrow now, but they simply cannot learn and feel, change and grow, live and love.



Then there is another; one who risks it all in hopes of change, does everything to assure room for growth, becomes something close to ideal as a result of learning, gaining the world when they finally let them self live and know what it is to love. This person may not directly or intentionally avoid any suffering or sorrow, but whatever may come their way, will be handled beautifully.



I’ve found that out of these two people, one will end up hurt; miserably as a result of the lack of the other person, entirely. Though, when its said and done, their heart may know many boundaries, but it can offer someone worthy a far greater devotion that ever thought possible.



Eventually, the latter person will come to realize what has been lost, and try every avenue but them self to blame. Regret? No, not yet, if ever. In due time, it becomes clear out of a foggy haze what kind of path they lead; when that time comes they will pull out all the stops; trying to gain any single reaction coming from whatever emotion they can get; good or bad. Sooner or later, their actions will be stamped as unnoticed and uncared for, it is at this time when they truly realize what they’ve done.



So I ask you this; “Is it better to have it all, and not care because you know its there, or have nothing at all and know its gone because of you”?

 
 
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